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In LeavingThe
Gravesite, grief leads the main character to make a
decision that nearly ends her life. She makes this decision at such a
young age that one can see why some parents may choose not to let their
children attend a funeral or to shield them from the bereavement experience
altogether. The main character describes her experience as "... unlocking
oceans of madness that wash away the earth from beneath the mighty."
On the other hand, an adult can harbor issues
simply because of not being able to go through a helpful bereavement process as
a child.
This certainly was the case with my
father. His mother died at
an early age. She went to hospital in the mid-1920s. He
never saw her again nor did he ever see her grave. He was six-years old. It took over 70
years for him to find out how she died and where she was buried. That
revelation came about only through a sincere but out of the blue and rather rhetorical
question by my aunt (his sister). "What did those people ever do
with my mother?
What's been your experience with bereavement as a child?
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